miss fortune
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I have a coworker... let's call him Otis... he's been in the department for several years and he does great work, but every time we try to train him on something more advanced in the department he just doesn't get it... as in, we can repeat ourselves time after time and he'll have it down for the next 10 minutes and then it vanishes from his mind completely. I feel kind of bad, because he's a nice guy and a really hard worker, but he just doesn't get it.
it's not to say that he can't get more complex things, because we lent him to another department that has a more advanced position that repeats the same few things over and over and he did great on that without getting bored, but a more advanced position that involves shifting from one thing to another quickly and making calls on things based on a glance at the data just doesn't click with him somehow.
I'll be leaving within the next year or so, so my boss (big boss... not departmental boss) asked who I wanted to train to do all of the things that I do in the department (which is A LOT of different shit... figuring out what to do and what needs to be done based on the situation is required... and being able to do the same things as my boss as well) and I picked a newer person (let's call her Beulah) over him. She's bright, she learns things quickly, she's a really hard worker and she absolutely LOVES working in our department... I've trained her on a few of the more complex parts of the area that actually DO require some thinking and judgement calls and she picked up on them immediately and even modified a few things to run even more efficiently and I think she'll do a fantastic job. She's excited to train to do everything and all of the bosses agree that she's a really good pick.
but Otis is not going to be happy with this at all when he finds out. when I came into the department from another department and immediately went to a higher position than him he was pissed off and demanded that he be trained in the same things as I was and he just couldn't pick up on it. He demanded a few months later to the GM that he be trained and he just didn't get it again... and as soon as he hears that I've picked someone other than him to train to replace me he's going to pitch a fit and demand that he receive the same training and have the position instead of her. He's great at his job, but he just doesn't grasp the concepts required to do what I've been doing.
Otis says that he's earned the position by serving in the department longer and putting in more hard work and he HAS put in a lot of hard work and has always been right there to do extra work whenever necessary. My boss (departmental) says that he'll feel compelled to train him as well just so that he doesn't complain or leave the department and I personally think that it's a waste of resources to train him for the 5th time in something he just doesn't get... but I kind of feel bad because we've worked together long enough that he's pretty much a brother to me. Beulah will do a really good job and will require a lot less training though and I really like having her around as well. I've brought this up with my boss and he's afraid that if we don't train him he'll leave the department and we won't have him working there any longer.
I'm kind of in a bit of a spot here because I'm the one who would be training both of them on top of the several jobs that I already do at work... I have the energy for it but I'm not sure that I actually have the time to train Otis since that requires a lot of supervision and a lot of going over the same things over and over and over... he's already been banned from several tasks for fucking them up too much anyway so I'm pretty sure that it's a very bad idea. I can go over my boss' head and have OUR boss tell him to just have Beulah trained, but that seems a bit like an asshole move because it took a while for the two of us to actually trust one another and come up with a good working relationship... I mean, he even agrees that Beulah is a much better choice than Otis and that Otis would never actually be used in the position... he's just afraid of losing a good worker. Otis' entire argument is that he's earned it by putting in a lot of hard work (years of hard work).
Should a person earn a shot at something they aren't suited for just because they've put in the work?
How many tries are too many?
it's not to say that he can't get more complex things, because we lent him to another department that has a more advanced position that repeats the same few things over and over and he did great on that without getting bored, but a more advanced position that involves shifting from one thing to another quickly and making calls on things based on a glance at the data just doesn't click with him somehow.
I'll be leaving within the next year or so, so my boss (big boss... not departmental boss) asked who I wanted to train to do all of the things that I do in the department (which is A LOT of different shit... figuring out what to do and what needs to be done based on the situation is required... and being able to do the same things as my boss as well) and I picked a newer person (let's call her Beulah) over him. She's bright, she learns things quickly, she's a really hard worker and she absolutely LOVES working in our department... I've trained her on a few of the more complex parts of the area that actually DO require some thinking and judgement calls and she picked up on them immediately and even modified a few things to run even more efficiently and I think she'll do a fantastic job. She's excited to train to do everything and all of the bosses agree that she's a really good pick.
but Otis is not going to be happy with this at all when he finds out. when I came into the department from another department and immediately went to a higher position than him he was pissed off and demanded that he be trained in the same things as I was and he just couldn't pick up on it. He demanded a few months later to the GM that he be trained and he just didn't get it again... and as soon as he hears that I've picked someone other than him to train to replace me he's going to pitch a fit and demand that he receive the same training and have the position instead of her. He's great at his job, but he just doesn't grasp the concepts required to do what I've been doing.
Otis says that he's earned the position by serving in the department longer and putting in more hard work and he HAS put in a lot of hard work and has always been right there to do extra work whenever necessary. My boss (departmental) says that he'll feel compelled to train him as well just so that he doesn't complain or leave the department and I personally think that it's a waste of resources to train him for the 5th time in something he just doesn't get... but I kind of feel bad because we've worked together long enough that he's pretty much a brother to me. Beulah will do a really good job and will require a lot less training though and I really like having her around as well. I've brought this up with my boss and he's afraid that if we don't train him he'll leave the department and we won't have him working there any longer.
I'm kind of in a bit of a spot here because I'm the one who would be training both of them on top of the several jobs that I already do at work... I have the energy for it but I'm not sure that I actually have the time to train Otis since that requires a lot of supervision and a lot of going over the same things over and over and over... he's already been banned from several tasks for fucking them up too much anyway so I'm pretty sure that it's a very bad idea. I can go over my boss' head and have OUR boss tell him to just have Beulah trained, but that seems a bit like an asshole move because it took a while for the two of us to actually trust one another and come up with a good working relationship... I mean, he even agrees that Beulah is a much better choice than Otis and that Otis would never actually be used in the position... he's just afraid of losing a good worker. Otis' entire argument is that he's earned it by putting in a lot of hard work (years of hard work).
Should a person earn a shot at something they aren't suited for just because they've put in the work?
How many tries are too many?
