His teaching on that helped me out as well. I could get the sense of what an Si anima was like, which verified I was not Ne dominant. I also realized that my attraction to Si dom's was from the anima being shaped by a boy's mother, and not necessarily the function in my case. The hook for him with the laundress was that whole "neat and orderly" thing, but that leaves me cold.
I've thought about my dreams, but they all seem to be just benign rehashes of past places. The anima is something I have fantasized about instead, so that's probably why that part of the unconscious isn't forced to come up through dreams. Just a nice, sweet, affectionate caring feminine partner. (Close to what I actually got!). I can tell it must be the anima, because I even fantasized about her when I was a kid. Not as a girlfriend, but as a sister! This wasn't erotic, of course, but it still was a sort of "other half" that would sort of complement my developing masculinity.
This was probably originally inspired on some dreams back then, of some female or another that I had met, that would convey some sort of feelings. this must have been the time when the anima projection began transferring from Mother to other females (which is the normal progress). So it's just as Jungians teach; the opposite gender takes on this mystical sense.
So it would be symmetrical. My father had my mother, and I would have this nice sister. (Should have known from that that I was a Ti dom!) I used to like to think my first cousin filled in for that role when she was around, but she was an aggressive ENTJ, and quite literally, an "opposing personality" at times! I imagined the sister as the total opposite. I did get a play girlfriend with a nice feminine voice and "girly" personality, but I was still thinking of sisters as a boy's "other half" (and she had a brother), and I myself soon got a brother instead of a sister (11 years behind me!) Then the cousin moved onto the block, but the brother broke up that symmetry anyway.
In college, putting together all the qualities of the girls I liked the most, it pretty much happened to come out as the same person as before, but now as the ideal girlfriend or wife. (I wasn't even thinking about the earlier fantasy then, and didn't realize it until very recently!)
As for the other archetypes, I've been trying to think whether they ever come up. Hard to identify them clearly, since this is the unconscious, after all.