BlackCat
Shaman
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ESFP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
That makes me wonder what an NF vs. SJ parent is like. It seems like NT/SP aren't for parenting, but NF and SJ seem made for it.
SP parents are awesome, take it from me. My dad is a very healthy ISTP. I think the main issue with parenting and living with someone is the introvert vs extrovert factor, and also the perceiving vs judging factor. A highly extroverted person will annoy a highly introverted person if they are living together. A perceiver will probably be annoyed if the judger is highly preferred to judging and tries to push them around or motivate them. I have experienced this first hand, I cannot get along with my ENFP mom, but me and my dad have an awesome relationship with each other. My dad and I never annoy each other, and we pretty much understand how the other lives.