DiscoBiscuit
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Where y'all at?
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Of course nobody would respond to this...
I'm just curious to talk with some 2's and get a handle on what I'm working with here.
What are you working here on Disco?
Anyway here it is -
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/enneagram/315-your-enneagram-type.html
Ps - You should let it known in the OP I believe, what you need to clarify.
Giggly is a 2w3 sx/so, IIRC.I'm just curious to talk with some 2's and get a handle on what I'm working with here.
[MENTION=8485]tinker683[/MENTION] is a 2w1!![]()
That or a 9w1, not entirely sure. I like harmony and order but I also get really upset and annoyed with friends or loved ones won't let me in and let me tend to them when they're sick or something. Makes me feel incredibly useless![]()
personally, I see you as a 9w1 (Sx/Sp maybe?)
I usually test as an Sx/So but Sx/Sp is quite likely. I know for a fact I'm an Sx dom though
I'm not sure anymore. 2's seem more assertive from their descriptions than I am so its not outside the realm of possibility. But I do have a very strong "need to be needed". Whether or not thats because I'm a 2 or because I may have self-esteem issues, I don't know.
Out of curiosity, what observations have you had to bring you to your conclusion? I'd be curious to know how I'm perceived by others of this forum (though I wouldn't dare start a thread about it or anything, that seems entirely too...I don't know, inappropriate, for me.)
9s wait for people to come to them; 2s go out and get them
- you are extremely laid back (ironically, you are so laid back it makes you stand out lol)
- 2s tend to be more emotional creatures and will likely seek some degree of self-disclosure. there is a more heartfelt sort of vibe to their communication style and they tend to be more openly emotional when hurt, whereas, you seem like you would rather withdraw.
- 2s have an energy about them that seems like they are trying to draw others to them. this is why I believe [MENTION=4398]Giggly[/MENTION] is a 2 actually. 9s wait for people to come to them; 2s go out and get them
Basically, both 9's and 2's can feel the need to help others and both can "reach out" to other people. The difference lies in what happens next.
2's give and hope to receive in turn - they keep score, they know the balance of each transaction, and feel hurt and angry when they give to others and are not recognized, appreciated or receive reciprocation (over time) for this giving.
9's give but basically resign themselves to getting nothing in return; this stokes their internal anger however and leads to passive aggressive foot dragging at times. 9's want to receive, but generally come to sadly accept most people are better takers than givers.
This is where a 2 asserts themselves.
2w3 sx/soAm I a 2 or 9?