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<b>Edahn</b>: Thank you, sorry for posting erroneously. Out of curiousity, how does one go about moving someone else's thread into another section? Do you report the thread?
INTP-ISTJ 2 letters
ENFP-ISTJ 0 letters
INTP-ENTJ 2 letters
INFJ-INTP 2 letters
INTP-INTP 4 letters
I average out 2 letters. I suppose that is fair.![]()
It is rather striking, though, that the first two women who claim to be ISTJs actually do such a wonderful job with their appearance. I have always wondered how generation differences impact type expression. Because the few ISTJ women I know who are my age would NOT take such care in looking so beautiful and "soft" -- they usually kept an austere, rather functional appearance and would have thought these girls looking like this to be a little silly/pointless.
Although, Jennifer, I'm not so sure it's simply a generational thing. I'm good friends with an ISTJ female who must be roughly the same age as these people and she is quite a bit like you described - functional, not really aesthetic at all. She chooses her clothes and wears her hair because they're comfortable and don't get in the way - her overall style is sort of sporty-casual. Doesn't really ever wear 'soft' colours like blues, greens, pinks, and most of her stuff would be suited fine if she ever goes camping or surfing, etc. It could be just her on an individual level, but I don't know.
And I know ISFJs who are quite concerned with appearance, not practical at all, so who knows?
I disagree with your assessment completely...
As previously mentioned the first set of photos are meant to be misleading and therefore depict the women far more dressed-up than they usually are.
Taking this into account I am uncertain as to where you see evidence that they "take such care in looking so beautiful and "soft"", or what aspect of their appearance you believe ISTJ women your age would consider "silly/pointless".
Both girls are uncommonly attractive morphologically, so my guess would be that you are operating under the assumption that women of their phenotype must spend a significant amount of effort on their appearance to look that way-despite evidence to the contrary.
NB: By "effort into their appearance" I am mean effort in maintaining the more frivolous aspects of their appearance-what Jennifer was referring to when she hinted that they appear to "take such care in looking so beautiful and "soft"" (which they don't). This does not include aspects of well being maintenance such as diet and exercise, which ISTJs are usually scrupulous about and which most likely has a greater long-term impact on physical appearance.
The ISTJ women I know either look functional (and use their makeup that way) or they dress starkly. I have never ever met ISTJ women who look like your friends. Even the one or two we have here seemed to shun this sort of look... although religious influence was involved as well, and thus might have also detracted from their desire to use makeup more extensively.
Jennifer: I wasn't going to respond to your post originally as you seem defensive and to be taking the fact that I'm questioning your observations personally, however, there are some things I felt needed clarifying.
Incidentally, you haven't answered any of my simple questions and instead simply reasserted that they don't look like ISTJs without clearly expressing why.
Are you honestly taking offense to the fact that I disagree with you?
I mean, come on.
Do you realise how this sentence is self-contradictory? How can I possibly be 'putting words in [your] mouth' if I am simply quoting what you wrote, without adding my interpretation but instead asking you to clarify?
I may choose to display [my type] when/if I delete this thread; hazard a guess?
I don't know, my sister's ISTJ, and she's always been into hair and makeup, and she dresses very well, not utilitarian at all. (Of course, the same could be said of me, and that's not typical of an INTP.) She also doesn't give off a "cold" vibe, but that gets her into trouble sometimes with acquaintances who perceive her one way and expect her to behave like the fun-loving party girl. She's really not good with being flexible without advance warning, and she doesn't like her systems upset.
Jennifer said:Tallulah said:I don't know, my sister's ISTJ, and she's always been into hair and makeup, and she dresses very well, not utilitarian at all. (Of course, the same could be said of me, and that's not typical of an INTP.) She also doesn't give off a "cold" vibe, but that gets her into trouble sometimes with acquaintances who perceive her one way and expect her to behave like the fun-loving party girl. She's really not good with being flexible without advance warning, and she doesn't like her systems upset.
Neat, that gives some context. I wonder how secondary functions impact ISTJ presentation, and if they might be a factor? (And what type is your mom? Or other women your sister might have been influenced by?)
The info you give at the end helps reinforce an ISTJ read as well, her personality seems to demand closure even if her appearance seems to differ from that.
And I know your appearance as INTP doesn't fit the stereotype... and I doubt mine fits either. So... again, what about other functions' influence? I wonder how strong an influence those have. It might be interesting to see Ante's friends' full function reads, to see how the other functions measured up to their Si+Te.