Lunar Light
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I'm glad I was right with the somewhat intuitive thoughts
.Right, yeah, I picked that up as 6. Fearing the consequences of addiction (dependency) more than fearing the actual concept of it, right?
Agh, it's sort of hard to explain. It's not specifically something that stands out as like some sort of big phobia. It's this overall... like wariness, alertness of "danger" (not just physical, emotional too). 6s desire support, and the lack of it is cause for anxiety. I say it's not so obvious because I used to type at 4w3 and I had never really given 6 a thought. I never crossed it out, but I never really thought about it (and I knew it). When I started to consider fear in myself... it was sort of weird, because I knew it was there, but it wasn't jumping out at me. Whereas anger was much easier to identify in me. Like, from the beginning, I had my 1w2 gut fix right and never looked back. It was the easiest to see, even though it isn't the strongest. Core type can be tricky like that, but once you understand it better, it will seem obvious. At this point I see myself as painfully 6 but I had to think about it a lot and sort through things.You're correct. What is the fear associated with 6 from your words?
As you can see even now i cant recognize this
I realized that I always had this undercurrent of anxiety that I tried to fight as much as I could. A lot of 6 descriptions make it sound like 6s don't trust others and place the burden of proving trust on others. For me, I knew it was my own issue, and I constantly tried fighting against my own inhibitions. I knew they were a bit much and I didn't want to blame anyone else. I saw 6 in those moments where the anxiety became more conscious... like the times my mind went all over the place, considering possibilities. Having that sort of quick mind, darting from possible factor or concern, is very 6. I remembered the first time I took an AP test and how I started second-guessing myself and I had to tell myself I prepared enough, I was fine, but yeah. I saw that my anxiety was pretty present internally, but that I'd think most people wouldn't see it.
I didn't really answer that straightforwardly, but I hope you got an idea of what I meant. It's not direct. It's often a lot of things that tie together. For me, I was questioning my ability, and that ties back to me trying to prove I'm worthy, and that finally ties back into my need for support (in the past I felt like if I didn't prove I was good enough, I would be rejected. By everyone really). Hope that clears it up a bit.
Ahahaha, you know I actually do the same thing, and I sort of mean it but I don't. Nuances, you know? I'd say yeah, w7 to 6Hmm, I don't know your last sentence threw me off because well I actually say things like this all the time (jokingly of course) (well at the same time not?)
Then again, i could see that be some w7 influence.
.Oftentimes 6s are described in two different flavors: phobic or counterphobic. It's not so clear cut though; almost all 6s will experience both, though it will vary between people. For me, I'd define myself as phobic, whereas my SO who is INFP and 6w5 knows himself to be counterphobic (cp). The basic idea of the head center, types 5, 6, and 7 is fear. 6 probably embodies fear in the most straightforward way between the three (5s tend to combat fear by withdrawing inward, 7s will combat fear by going forth into the external world, while 6s are more wont to do both).
Phobia is what you expect of fear... that insecurity and vulnerability. Other 6s still have that, but they actively try to fight back, rebel against the fear. That's counterphobia. These types of 6s will probably deny fear, or at least are not as aware of fear in themselves. Hmm, I could try to think of examples later... depending on what stuff you're familiar with
(hope you know some anime or game characters or something... could make it easier to show you what I mean!)Yes, the 5 sort of has that "ivory wall" going for them. I think that's what it's called anyway, but they protect themselves by building up knowledge as a defense. That naturally refers back to the self and isolates from others, as they focus to make oneself competent (as one of the competency types, 1, 3, or 5). Nah, personally I don't see you as too detached (though I haven't talked to you in depth).
Yeah, I think it's in a different way than 4s are self-focused
.Thank you!
Yes, that's very 6
. If you identify with that, I'd honestly say there's only a very slim chance that you don't have 6 somewhere in you. Though to be clear that has somewhat of a w7 flavor.Well, specifically in that part of your questionnaire, you said sometimes you panic and others times you take it head-strong. I'm not totally sure if this is the case for you, but phobia would be more submissive to the situation, whereas counterphobia is aggressive.
It's not really unique to 6s (really, 6s what most call the most human type), but 6s are going to have that neurosis with it, that sort of clear pattern... it's a fixation.
LOL yeah I did the same thing actually, though the descriptions always had this slight "rebellious" flavor to it and I could see it, but I knew it wasn't the same. 6 instincts
.I was talking about this with a friend, like this discussion here, and I was laughing really hard at this because you and I were both testing each other a bit and omg I got it and so did you and there was a lot of like, implicit communication that I think might go over other types' heads ahaha. I wasn't totally sure but I got the feeling. I wasn't sure if you would notice that our reasoning is similar so
.Might be better if we could talk off forum maybe? Overall I find it easier to discuss type elsewhere at this point ^_^.so 2w3 core? can you just briefly describe that for me? You seem to have some reliable sources.
Thank you!! I don't blame you at all for that. I can be skeptical of people too, naturally.I read the entire thing word by word and yes i think that's how it played out.
Wooo haha, I'm glad you get me.
It's okay;; and well im glad you think so
no I did, I just wanted to post that first since I was going out.Btw, if you have it, do you think we could Skype? It's faster for me. These long posts are not too great for my Ne ^_^. PM me your Skype name if have it and would like to
