I dont think I am a person with such great Emotional Intelligence, I always have been kind of an overreactive hot-headed person, not really emotionaly intelligent.
Well, emotional intelligence is the strength of Fi.
"Hot-headedness" can be emotionally intelligent. It depends on the situation. Just realise, that being emotional is not a bad thing. It can be a very good thing.
However, I question your motives. The way you do it is probably wrong. Not to single you out, a lot of people do it wrong. But look at this thread. You're showing signs that you greatly don't understand things if you think that Fi is inferior. Just ditch the fucking stereotypes!
FiNe is my favourite type, and you're making it out like it's the worst type to be. It's not the best either, but it's one of the best.
One thing to realise is that the types that are superior tend to have a hard time getting ahead in this world. It's often the inferior types that do best. Te primaries do the best in particular and they're on the lower end of the spectrum. Fi primaries do poorly but they're on the higher end of the spectrum.
You're judging by what the world says and not what's true absolutely. In absolute terms, FiNe is a superior type. NiFe is more superior, and so is NiTe, but FiNe is one of the best.
The problem is that you're too much of a hateful individual to see it. You need something to hate, and you have decided to hate your own type. I doubt that you hate yourself. I'm sure your self esteem is great. But you hate the type you are, to an irrational degree. Your type is fine, the problem is YOU. The problem is that you have decided to have all of these cognitive biases and to hate that which isn't detestable. To hate that which you, and so many others are, based on stereotypes that you should have thrown out a long time ago.
Well, I for one, see you as a fool.