InvisibleJim
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How does one go about dating THREE INTJs?
Very carefully.
How does one go about dating THREE INTJs?
*Scratches chin. Mumbles something about not being so sure of that... Looks around at all the glaring INTJ's. Flees thread*
Is this your way of saying you don't like INTJ personalities or personal magnetism?
You have no opinion until you sleep with one?
I don't think MBTI type determines how good one is in bed.
If that was a dig at INTJs not being good in bed, I'll have you know that all of my former partners (even the ones who currently hate me) acknowledged (perhaps grudgingly) that I performed excellently "in the sack," as it were. I honestly think that's a personal thing, though. Sexual performance =/= MBTI type.
Dating three INTJ's is easy if you do all three at once. They'll be so consumed with each other, it's like a walk in the park.
If that was a dig at INTJs not being good in bed, I'll have you know that all of my former partners (even the ones who currently hate me) acknowledged (perhaps grudgingly) that I performed excellently "in the sack," as it were. I honestly think that's a personal thing, though. Sexual performance =/= MBTI type.
I have met only two INTJs my entire life. One being a female I became friends with quickly, and an alleged man I dated a while back who was young and still immature.
I cannot fathom being surrounded by them....
*People I have met from the board don't count, as obviously that will skew the numbers.
Why ENFP's are awesome:
- They love INTJ's.
(experiences with other INTJs)
INTJs are there for you when it really counts/you really need them.
INTJs are honest and won't take your feelings lightly (they may hurt you or be clumsy about them, but they don't take them lightly). When mature they are (can be) emotionally honest and aware and open to remarks/criticism while maintaining a "diffcult-to-offend" and rational attitude (NT) that makes them a great choice for understanding and modelling emotion. I'm serious.
INTJs solve your problems.
INTJs are creative banterers.
INTJs can create awesome worlds/narratives.
INTJs look after you.
INTJs are loyal.
INTJs are just and later learn to be kind as well.
INTJs are sappy and romantic.
INTJs manage to hop quickly from idea to idea and generate new ideas.
INTJs are curious. And remarkably open to their environment after growing up a little. INTJs are generally friendly once over 25.
INTJs are rhetorically gifted.
INTJs are exciting when Se kicks in and teams up with Ni to form weirdo plans.
INTJs are passionate and enthusiastic. Often also idealistic. All with the trademark hint of forcefulness which makes things happen I suppose.
I love matured INTJs with focus on Fi. Pure gold.
- Straightforward, but respectfully so
- Passionate about making things better
- Lead instead of intrude, motivate instead of steamroll
- SO PERCEPTIVE (what is this, actually? How do you guys do it? It's almost scary sometimes)
- Complex and intense, introspective and self-aware
- Take a while to share their thoughts, but depending on the person, often worth the wait
- Imaginative and practical, idealistic and sober
- Confident but quietly so (no need to broadcast or advertise their personal matters)
- Strong-willed and strong-minded
- Demand to be viewed and treated as equals, demand that you demand the same
In my experience INTJs have the gift of taking a problem (of mine) and taking it apart into small pieces - pieces that I can manage. I can't say how many INTJs I know - I hang out on INTJforum, where I've made some very good friends.
In my experience INTJs have the gift of taking a problem (of mine) and taking it apart into small pieces - pieces that I can manage. I can't say how many INTJs I know - I hang out on INTJforum, where I've made some very good friends.
I call it doing "the NTJ thing."
In many scenarios it is actually more comforting than being "comforted."
Depends though, sometimes you just want a hug. But I love the NTJ way of handling shit and making you look at it in little objective pieces, et al.
I find it calming.
There is definitely a time and a place for it.... But it was something I learned a bit how to do when I dated this INTJ for over 4 years. He was always very patient and calm and, "ok, I know you are upset and worried.... so let's break it down like this." And the process of thinking about it and seeing it for a new perspective helped distract me a bit from feeling upset. I've been glad to keep him as a friend since we broke up because every once in awhile I ask him for help in this regard.
Edit: I feel like INTJs are better at directing people to come to this conclusion themselves... the ENTJs I have known always want to make the conclusion for me and then hit me with it.