Also people hate what they fear, and they fear what they don't understand.
If you "hate" INFJs, try something new and listen.
Edit: Part of the reason I sound persnickety about it is because of this weird history. The biggest reason it used to hurt me is because of my own personal life and context in which I've seen family members and friends who are introverted Feeler types (including more than just INFJ) be subjected to that exact dynamic. In relationships it is extremely common for one person to be causing harm (in my experience they have been INTPs, INTJs, ISTPs, and one INFP) and then projecting those exact faults onto their partner (my experience these were INFJ, ISFJ, INFP, and ISFP). It feels like that is what is happening online. The INFJs here are really awesome people that I've been friends with, so when I see people projecting these extreme faults they found in their own exes and projecting them in insistent and rude ways on the INFJs here who often respond by being very accommodating, then I can get really angry about it. When I push back and say the criticizer are wrong in this context about the INFJs here, it is the correct position (I rarely have certitude, but in this case, I do). It does need to stop, and it isn't unreasonable to ask that people listen to INFJ (or any other type) describe their self-awareness which should include both positive and negative tendencies.