I am like that little kid who sticks his fingers in his ears and goes LA LA LA LA LA LA..
And you just keep right on talking to no one..
You really think I can see what you are typing.. don't you??
Darling.. I have played this game before and you are more predictable than death and taxes.
Keep getting mad!!
This thread is getting scandalous.
Has she started calling me names yet??
If you said "I think the goal of every NF.... " My Fi wouldn't have gotten all fussed.
Instead of asking me what I meant and to clarify.. You went off.. So I just came along for the ride.
So back on topic then.. Literally it's a sore spot with me, or, tender skin that does not like to get rubbed. growing a thick skin in those places should then be my goal, whether it fits into your perception of how an NF should behave or not. My goal is not your goal nor any other NF's goal.My goal is to grow to be the best ME I can be.
See I can make sense and play nice if you can too.
I for one do not believe for 1 second that Fi doms are all warm and fuzzy like they are stereotyped to be. especially Fi Dom males with lots of sore spots.
You telling me how I ought to behave based on some online functions test result is not a good way for me to grow because it seeks to limit my experience by fitting yours ..
now can we please put this to bed??
Thick skin is not an NF goal unless you are jaded and even then you are focusing on something that isn't an inherent strength so you are wasting energy on it.
Perhaps an INFP goal/strength is to have thick skin, I haven't seen that as a goal in my INFP friends. Maybe I've missed that it is a drive for INFPs. Forgive me!
If you don't think there is anything to compare inside a type why are you a type? There has to be something similar between them, yes?
How come I think some INFPs are the awesomest awesome and some are just.. not so much.
So.. did you say those things or not? I quoted you on them again.. why do you ignore them?
Well I think this discussion is interesting, because it seems to embody this tension I am feeling within myself currently - how much should I be focusing on trying to improve my 'weaknesses' and how much should I be just working within the context of my 'strengths'?
I think that it is important to do BOTH, but where the balance is... I have not a clue. And I don't know how to determine it either.
what are your weaknesses in your mind?
I am aware of the factor that all people are unique individuals.