any NF type except ENFJs.... they're fucking wackjobs, man.
Just because I put you in a headlock, sold your Granny to nomads, burnt your house down, and ate your goldfish doesn't mean anything of the sort. Don't you know when a girl likes you??
ISTJs have my number. I have to REALLY prove my value to them. I think they generally see me as useless, like a retarded animal. lol INTJs push me to do better and hit things objectively. Like my INTJ bff. He's kept me SO calm.
As to natural "come and get me", it's ENTPs. I've traded paint with several over the years. I wish I knew ENTP girls IRL. Dun have any.
The one male who drove me insane, the minute I came across the table after him, it was true love. Knocked him back against the wall. As a friend hauled me struggling backwards by the seat of my jeans, ENTP was glowing all over, talking dirty to me, excited and shaking all over. The beast. I could have made him happy, he knew it.
I know you said no romantic dynamic, sorry.
ISTPs motivate me to stay sane and focused. And to never feel helpless. They make me feel weirdly safe too. They don't blow up on me. And they aren't afraid of me. I could overthrow a country and surround myself with them and never shed another tear. I had a nemesis, an ISTP. VERY eerie. We were more than a little chained to each other.
INTPs are always a surprise. I endeavor to match their precision and dry wit. One in my garage, he was SO competent. He had every inch of my respect and admiration. I felt like I was vibrating when he was around.