Platonically: ESFPs, ENFPs, ISFJs. XSFPs make really good friends. They just seem to get me on a deeper level. They are emotionally just as intense as me (some even more) and that makes me feel at ease with my own sensitivity. They are good listeners and deeply loyal people. I love them.
Romantically: ENFJ/ISTP/ISFP/ENTJ men.
I can't help but find myself gravitating toward them a lot.
ISTP,
ENTJ, and
ISFP men have always been a weakness of mine. And IST/FP men. But ENFJ's are just one of a kind. Deep connections, intense conversations. I like the INFP/ENFJ dynamic a lot. Their personality is just so attractive. Intelligent, funny, passionate, insightful, caring, sociable─but not too much (even though introverts are more my thing)─sexy, and yet they are so secretive and complex. They can be pretty intimidating, too. Not to forget that, as an INFP girl, I sway more on the... submissive (meek, etc., you name it) side─not necessarily in a sexual way, though─and ENFJ men just naturally know how to bring out a more social, outgoing side of me. They (what would be a fitting word to use?) take lead? Take control? They know how to impress, persuade, and coax easily. I like that. I am shy, reserved, and private, so it's good to have someone make you feel comfortable and secure enough to open up and show them a vulnerable side of you. The idea of such someone seems just so intriguing. Have yet to meet a female example of this type, though. And ISFPs. But (speaking from personal experience) I've also had some ENFJs and ISTPs become rather possessive or obsessive though. Wasn't a good experience.