Welp.
I do a lot of community service/volunteering, I visit the library with some regularity, I do some out of state traveling that puts me walking around big cities a lot, and I meet with other musicians to collaborate (just to name a few) so it makes sense that I run into a lot of NF's
I guess to specify my question, where do NTJ's tend to go? What do they do with their day?
The only time I tend to go out is with friend's on adventures. I am really extroverted but it's mostly for doing something. I remember that in the past I tend to hang out with people not for superficial reasons but to get something done or accomplished.
My childhood friends tend to be the only ones I really feel comfortable around in bar situations....I guess though it depends on your age.
between 18-22 we all pretty much do the same thing but after that we start coming into our own.
I do have urges to go out, but after working out, practicing guitar, studying, and working I tend to want to go somewhere and chill.
As an ENTJ I don't go to the library often because it's not convenient in the sense that I have to walk to the second floor, don't have a nice bathroom, and all the books distract me, but I did go to coffee shops when I was in a studying mode.
Now It tends to be entirely random. I build connections mostly based on things I like to do with others though, so whatever our interests our, we gather around them....it's been a challenge to learn how to relax but I am a bit older so my NI is almost in full throttle and really helps me just chill and go with the flow...
I'm always doing something though...and for me to sit and watch t.v. is extremely rare....I have my go to things like shameless, game of thrones, boardwalk empire, but I don't always have HBO...I watch sports but I loath going ot the stadium but love going with fam and friends to connect you know...I didn't really feel that sort of thing though until after 25..
Anyways sorry for the wall of text.
ENTJ's tend to go into law or medicine and mba stuff so they don't really get in touch with their inner selves until after 35 and by then it's usually too late...
So where can you find an ENTJ? Working out, working on a hobby, at work, or getting something done like shopping or a chore...
It's so bad honestly, that I have trouble even playing video games, something I did a lot when I was a kid...but I love practicing guitar, and I love writing, and reading, and I love to do things like go out into nature and see the moon and stuff like that...