I don't like following, worshipping, etc. I live my life for my life. I don't need to believe that someone unconditionally loves me, I don't need a reason to appease my mind or emotions, I don't need that type of supportive community, I really don't need alot of what church offers. I don't have a pets all sit together and cry or sing coombaya or how ever you spell it. You have a problem, let's work to fix it, not sit in pity and misery. I have awesome friends and family, we are always there for each other when needed. I would rather focus on family and friends then something that may or may not exist. I would rather put the people in my life first, above some higher being. If I go to hell...oh well...my family is taken care of. If there is a heaven, then they will not need me when they are in heaven and I am in hell. Religion takes second place to family and friends and I don't feel like sitting in second place.