proteanmix
Plumage and Moult
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Title says it all.
What factors went into your choice?
What factors went into your choice?
The hardest decision in my life was to accept the fact that I am what I am and it is impossible for me to change that.
Leaving my husband.
Factors:
1) My psychological state.
2) The perceived opportunity and desire to travel the world and accumulate diverse life experiences.
3) My understanding of my husband as being arrogant, insensitive and boring and not sharing the same goals as I.
4) The allure of an affectionate, exciting, passionate, carefree man.
(P.S. Please don't rip me on this...the decision is not something I'm proud of, and I suffer from it daily.)
The hardest decision in my life was to accept the fact that I am what I am and it is impossible for me to change that.
- my grandfather, who'd been dead for a long time - was terrifying and grieved me.
You're not a prude, Viv. I've had to do the same thing.