stalemate
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- Joined
- May 6, 2010
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 7w6
Sometimes for me it is important to really take a look at what I consider an accomplishment vs what I think other people would consider an accomplishment. Most people (myself included) don't really accomplish a whole lot of anything. We just run around and look busy while the sun is shining. Not sure if that helps or makes it worse for you, but it is hard to be envious or contrasting yourself with other people when you consider a lot of people just live life on the hedonistic treadmill. Most of it is really pointless.This is so ENFP. I can really relate to you, mate
Okay, it's not any of that. It's more like a existencial drama, something that happens to me from times to times. It's not only one factor, it's a combinations of happenings. It's basicly me perceiving all of my flaws and errors. It's me comparing myself to other friends and seeing what they accomplished and what I didn't. Situations with two ISTP girls... and I ended up blaming my personality my unstructured and unrational Fi.
I'm not putting it down, just saying when you look at it for what it is, there isn't all that much meaningful stuff happening.
Unless they keep taking the girls you like.
I know my personality has made some girls not like me before. It's cool though. They weren't for me and I wasn't for them. One girl in high school was on a date with me and I caught her glancing over her shoulder and she said she was worried someone was going to see us (the date hadn't even really started, we had driven to a theater and were in line to buy movie tickets). I offered to drive her home right then so she wouldn't have to be seen with me. She decline, we watched the movie, and never went out again. Stuff like off and on in my dating years. I dated one girl off and on for a while and she left me for a meathead 2 or 3 times. Not sure why I kept signing up for that nonsense. Who knows...