[MENTION=9273]Vasilisa[/MENTION] --
Hi, clueless n00b showing up 'cuz I got pinged.
Let me take a stab at this; please be warned I don't really understand the tritype -- even with the help of some other members.
First impression -- you're an INFJ. You have the deep piercing eyes of an introverted intuitive: and on your video I could just *feel* the Ni
radiating from you.
But you sure don't have any trace of the patented INTJ death stare.
OK, so you're an IN, you have Ni, you're not an INTJ. So yes, let's go with INFJ.
Second -- Enneagram. This one is a little more tricky, as you seemed to be all over the map, with 3, 4, and 9 predominating...
Your eyes are deep, soulful, tender: not the self-indwelling wells of pain of an INFP E4 (think Fiona Apple for example); and you appear to approach things with both feeling *and* intellect. So that sounds like 4 with a 5 wing. But on the other hand, you seem to be very keen on how you are being taken socially, seeking approval -- which sounds a bit like a 4 with a 3 wing.
So for your first stacking, I'm going for 4 with a 5 wing and a 3 wing just smaller than the 5 wing; BUT that one wing or the other predominates depending on the situation you're in.
From your descriptions in your posts about doorslamming, it sounds like you are very very loyal, and doorslam only when you can't take the pain any more.
And you kick yourself for having doorslammed.
To me, that sounds like a 6 (guarded but once trust is given, VERY loyal)...so I'd say that is a 6w5.
Then the fact you tested all over the map on your Enneagram -- that is a classic tell for a 9. So you've got a 9 in there somewhere.
So either 4w5(3); -- 6w5 -- 9w? or 4w5(3); -- 9w? -- 6w5.
For your instinctive stacking -- I didn't feel anything of the INTENSE drive for self-preservation, so you're not sp-dominant...but you seem to want to connect utterly, soul-to-soul, which would typify an sx-dom; But you did talk a lot about reaching out to others and demonstrated a good feel for social arrangements and interactions, and that smells like an so. But it doesn't seem like you effortlessly navigate the social realm. And, since people seem to do the best at their SECOND stacking, and trip over their own toes on their first stacking, I'm going to say you're a
4w5(3); 6w5; 9w? sx-so.
My best guess, subject to change without notice.
so-sx-sp.