BlackCat
Shaman
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2008
- Messages
- 7,038
- MBTI Type
- ESFP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
True but sp interferes too much. I've got a long-time friend who I've kept at arms-length since he's the type that's bad for me long-term. Why not just go for it and get all that tension out of the way? But I won't and can't.
I've done this, gotten with someone who wouldn't be good for me in the long term. Lasted about a month, sp was screaming at me the whole time but I decided to ignore it to go along with my sx desires. I can safely say that I got some emotional scarring from that... but not too bad. So never again. Everything has to be manageable and work out somehow; it has to be realistic and safe.
I'm with you on self pres. It is definitely a necessity, I don't understand how sp lasts can manage. Wouldn't they get themselves in many situations that would hurt them in the long run?