Ming
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I think what the OP is trying to say is when you're trying to talk/argue/try to get a point across to an opposite party, they make comments about you that is completely irrelevant to the suggested topic.
For example, you're talking about a maths equation that you perceive to know the answer to, but another person disagrees. In his defense, he attacks with a negative comment (ie, 'you're gay') to justify his answer - which of course does not make any contribution at all.
Yes, I do agree that it is annoying. I don't know how I should react, because he supposedly uses the words with a connotation for insult. You see, I can't deny that either, because I do associate with what the person said (eg, stupid, weak, gay, and other words that they use with an offense in their minds) - but I don't agree with the, I guess, 'motif' behind it.
And it's as if you're torn between two sides - whether to say yes, or no.
It's honestly laughable - it's so weak and stupid. What I think the OP is trying to say is that this is what a lot of people do - and it's foolish and immature.
For example, you're talking about a maths equation that you perceive to know the answer to, but another person disagrees. In his defense, he attacks with a negative comment (ie, 'you're gay') to justify his answer - which of course does not make any contribution at all.
Yes, I do agree that it is annoying. I don't know how I should react, because he supposedly uses the words with a connotation for insult. You see, I can't deny that either, because I do associate with what the person said (eg, stupid, weak, gay, and other words that they use with an offense in their minds) - but I don't agree with the, I guess, 'motif' behind it.
And it's as if you're torn between two sides - whether to say yes, or no.
It's honestly laughable - it's so weak and stupid. What I think the OP is trying to say is that this is what a lot of people do - and it's foolish and immature.