Zarathustra
Let Go Of Your Team
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so sx 7s are the least sexual 7s?
i see what you mean about the spiritualization of sex, and do identify with that feeling. i don't know if that makes us less sexual though. that kind of intimacy and full expression is a huge priority of mine, and results in me feeling like a very sexual person. just because it's not carnal sexuality, doesn't mean it's not sexuality. i would think that other variants would have less of a focus on it (although i can see the sp angle, i still question how much comparative weight this particular need has in the sp sphere).
Ok, yeah, that's fair.
When I was saying "sexual" there, I was referring to the "more physical side of sex".
I'm pretty sure my ESFP ex was 7w8 sp/so, and she was very much into the physical side of sex.
So much so that I was the one wishing it was a bit more spiritual/romantic (and I like the physical side of sex).
We had our moments, but her default state seemed much more dialed to "sex is a fun and pleasurable physical act".
Also, what they say is, because of this default setting, sp 7s are the 7s most prone to going out and looking for casual sex.
Sx 7s, otoh (and let's add female in there), are much less likely to do so, as they sort of disdain such behavior as "trivializing sex".