INFJ - The Counselor
You scored 25 I versus E, 20 N versus S, 20 F versus T, and 80 J versus P!
Your ideal romantic partner is known as the counselor. This type makes a supportive and insightful romantic partner, encouraging their mates to have dreams and work hard to make those dreams come true. Because they are so creative, they have a wealth of ideas to help them toward those goals. They need harmony so much that they are driven to resolve conflict quickly, as long as the terms don't violate their strong ethics. They feel the most appreciated when their partners admire their creativity, trust their inspirations, and respect their values. It is also vitally important that their partners be open and emotionally available - in other words, that they be willing to share themselves completely.
*looks at the test result*
*grrrr*
"FU test writers!"
hrm... i am trying to see if i can change the answers i'm more oblivious too while still keeping it within what i would honestly like..
so far, the furthest i've gotten has being INFP.
basically if i want:
1. Someone who listens well, never interrupts, lets you talk as much as you want, who likes deep discussions one on one.
2. Someone who prefers to be with small groups and willingly goes home when you are ready.
3. Someone who is a wall flower, who would rather never leave your side if you go to a party together.
4. Someone who will speak their mind when they are upset - who may even have a temper - but they never let anything fester.
5. Someone who is creative and visionary, but at times may seem disconnected or distant.
6. Someone complex and deep, someone with many facets, accepting of change, interested in new ideas, but not so practical sometimes.
7. Someone who focuses on possibilities, intersections, and the future, but often at the expense of the present moment
8. someone who is terrible at picking up on hints, but will never jump to conclusions
9. Someone who is introspective, who thinks about what everything means and why
10. Someone who is thoughtful and considerate, but maybe not consisten
11. Someone who never hurts anyone, who really knows how to walk a mile in others shoes, but doesn't stand up for themselves so much.
12. Someone who loves sappy romance stuff, who is very affectionate and touchy feely.
13. Someone who talks easily about their feelings, who openly shares themselves completely but maybe too often. They are always asking what is wrong or what you are thinking.
16. Someone who makes plans with you days in advance, possibly to the point of being pushy
17. Someone decisive, who isn't afraid of commitment
(the balded where selected both in honesty and to with the goal of avoiding the previous results)
then for INFP rather then INFJ, i need to give up on all of those:
14. Someone dependable and steadfast, but who needs to be prodded to have fun.
15. Someone organized and ambitious, but possibly a bit critical or controlling, and might be a neat freak.
18. Someone who is comfortable with routine but may lack spontaneity
in favor of those:
14. Someone funloving and easy going, but possibly a touch irresponsible or unpredictble
15. Someone messy and sloppy, but accepting and easy going.
18. Someone who hates routine of any kind and must be spontaneous at all costs
solution: