chris1207
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A [possible] distinction between sp/sx and sx/sp and attitudes to sex, that recently came up for me IRL -
sp/sx: "sex is an expression, a confirmation, of intimacy between me and another. Sex is therefore reserved for the few I care about deeply."
sx/sp: "sex is a means of creating intimacy between me and another. Sex can be used to fully open me to the being of the other, to explore them and what the connection between us feels like."
...Any thoughts/ideas on this?
I always thought that SP's were more selfish and had little problem going from partner to partner without developing an attachment. This would be different from the "reserved for that special one" notion. Maybe that's your Fe talking.
Also, what do Sx's believe if not that sex is physical for physicality's sake? It would make sense to me that a dom would only see the world through their perspective, in this case, one of physical dynamism. Especially if they are immature.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that you're referring to SO when you're talking about building a connection with someone...