I don't think you are Sp/So EJCC. So/Sp fits better.
I have theses descriptions about Sp stackings:
I definitely don't relate to those; however, I relate very much to this one, from
this site:
Enneatype One's basic fear is of not being perfect, therefore, not being good enough. This manifests in the self-pres variant as the need to "fix" the environment.
This type is the most steady, organized, and practical. They prioritize time well, pride themselves on, for instance, finding the bargain, buying quality, putting forth their best effort. Perfection comes from dotting all the i's. They tend to watch their health and to not overindulge. When healthy, their example of efficiency is inspiring. The pride they take in their work is commendable.
On the down side, they can become obsessive-compulsive. They can lose the forest for the trees in attempting to make their homes and environments perfect. They can also be very hard on themselves. The energy of this type is the most consistent. When their ideal falls short, frustration usually turns inward. Anger is repressed, especially with the Nine wing.
The description of So/Sp, in comparison, emphasizes the focus on
other people as the thing to be fixed:
(so/sp) are similar to the self-pres/social in the respect that both types will be community minded, but the self-pres/social will focus more on self and this type will extend its focus to the group. On the down side, they can be judgmental and intrusive when their input is not called for.
I definitely don't do that. I take Hermione Granger as an example of so/sp xSTJ, and although I acted like her when I was young, I no longer do.
Also, my mom fits that site's enneatype 1 so/sp description to a T, and I see myself as a little bit more reserved than her, regarding anger and frustration at people. (She acknowledges that she complains a lot, and I acknowledge that I usually don't complain about anything.) I am capable of taking a step back and letting it go when someone is being insufferably ignorant. It's frustrating, but I am much more likely to be angry at situations, than at people. I can be pretty good at separating the people from the action, and not seeing them as the villains of the situation (like my mom does).
Also: I relate very, very well to
this post.
So, I don't think I'm so/sp. But then again, on that thread about Sp being about mental vs. physical security, I related to the mental security part. I am at my most stubborn when it comes to things that I
need -- be it some time in front of the TV after a long day of studying, or three meals a day regardless of school-related inconvenience. I can feel very intensely about those things -- more so than about fitting in with a group (or making them fit in with me). Given the choice between a party and a good night's sleep (after a week or two of very little sleep), I'm leaving the party.