Saslou
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Hello.
I have joked and even asked the other day on this forum if i could change to ENTx. OK, S's make the world go round but its the N's that are the intellectuals. I know i can never be that.
Example, i did enjoy the film Fight Club but you know i sat there for so long trying to figure out that they were both the same person. Yet, put me in a situation where i need defuse people's tempers and i'm great.
I was hoping to find a perfect type on here, oh it doesn't exist so i think i'll stay esfj.
With regards to your friends, you shouldn't tell them what type they are. Only they can come to that conclusion on their own. When an INTJ is telling someone they are right all the time, its not productive. I used to in jest wind my ex up when we were sitting having a discussion about something. I would throw something random into the conversation just to see that look, only for a moment where i can see the cogs going, trying to find the connections.
We S's don't take everything so serious, maybe you need to lighten up around your friends a little.
It is silly comments like this that make me wish my type was XXXX. Granted you did mention the word 'unhealthy', yet how often do people talk of 'healthy' sensors. Its mostly the 'negative' that gets brought up.
So the SFJ's that were healthy, did they have a wider scope of vision, willing to take in new information, possibly change their beliefs as they have had time to reflect on what was said.
We have talked about this on the SJ forum. Conclusion.
You lot need to show us some love.
I have joked and even asked the other day on this forum if i could change to ENTx. OK, S's make the world go round but its the N's that are the intellectuals. I know i can never be that.
Example, i did enjoy the film Fight Club but you know i sat there for so long trying to figure out that they were both the same person. Yet, put me in a situation where i need defuse people's tempers and i'm great.
I was hoping to find a perfect type on here, oh it doesn't exist so i think i'll stay esfj.
With regards to your friends, you shouldn't tell them what type they are. Only they can come to that conclusion on their own. When an INTJ is telling someone they are right all the time, its not productive. I used to in jest wind my ex up when we were sitting having a discussion about something. I would throw something random into the conversation just to see that look, only for a moment where i can see the cogs going, trying to find the connections.
We S's don't take everything so serious, maybe you need to lighten up around your friends a little.
I've been subject to having a bias against sensors before because I've mostly seen the unhealthy side of sensing personalities.
But now I see it more as a difference as I've seen how useful they can be with their huge amount of attention to details (which can get annoying...)
I do, however, think it's mostly SFJs that I've had problems with as I've had experiences where they only pay attention to information that agrees with their beliefs, and some will stand by the stupidest information no matter how irrelevant it is.
It is silly comments like this that make me wish my type was XXXX. Granted you did mention the word 'unhealthy', yet how often do people talk of 'healthy' sensors. Its mostly the 'negative' that gets brought up.
So the SFJ's that were healthy, did they have a wider scope of vision, willing to take in new information, possibly change their beliefs as they have had time to reflect on what was said.
We have talked about this on the SJ forum. Conclusion.
You lot need to show us some love.
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