Laurie
Was E.laur
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 7w6
I think you might be bored.
I'm going to elaborate a bit on this. I've come up with a bit of a idea about people interactions. When you say to someone "oh my gosh I'm worried you are bored!!" you might actually be saying "dang, I'm bored." Why did the word bored even come to your mind? Possibly because YOU are bored.
When people try to tell me how I'm feeling I take a minute and wonder if it's how they are actually feeling, because there is a reason their mind produced that specific thought. It's also a good way to turn things onto yourself and take a minute to think about if you are trying to project yourself onto someone else.