I have only actually known one ENTJ in real life, I think. I liked him, but if I had to criticize him, I would have said:
- Get a GRIP, take a deep breath, and just CHILL. (I'd say "drink a beer" but I have the feeling he might have been a MEAN drunk.)
- Yes, some people ARE incompetent. You don't need to destroy them or take their incompetence personally.
- Maybe there are some other options you're not paying attention to, although your ideas are usually good ones.
- You don't have to be so condescending just because your ideas usually are broader and cover more of the bases than most people with less brainpower and who thus do more misguided things.
- Just because you can DO something doesn't mean it's the right thing to do, needs to actually be done, or is the best use of everyone's time and energy.
- You're not in charge, the Project Manager is. The rest of us submit to him, as part of being a member of this group; if we all acted like you, this whole thing would fall apart. So suck it up, princess.