GChatter is a good place. And to answer your question about the differences between INFPs, here is where I fit in. I don't relate to chunk of the descriptions of INFPs in general. I'm not fantasy prone, but I think about the future in realistic terms. I don't think of things as "good" or "evil", but right and wrong. I'm not spontaneous in any way and I can deal fine when I need to use logic. And once upon a time I worked diligently to become a lawyer. And I'm practical.
Here's some INFP descriptions I've found, but the stuff that's in bold does describes me.
creative, smart, idealist, loner, attracted to sad things, disorganized, avoidant, can be overwhelmed by unpleasant feelings, prone to quitting, prone to feelings of loneliness, ambivalent of the rules, solitary, daydreams about people to maintain a sense of closeness, focus on fantasies, acts without planning, low self confidence, emotionally moody, can feel defective, prone to lateness, likes esoteric things, wounded at the core, feels shame, frequently losing things, prone to sadness, prone to dreaming about a rescuer, disorderly, observer, easily distracted, does not like crowds, can act without thinking, private, can feel uncomfortable around others, familiar with the darkside, hermit, more likely to support marijuana legalization, can sabotage self, likes the rain, sometimes can't control fearful thoughts, prone to crying, prone to regret, attracted to the counter culture, can be submissive, prone to feeling discouraged, frequently second guesses self, not punctual, not always prepared, can feel victimized, prone to confusion, prone to irresponsibility, can be pessimistic
INFP children often create their own fantasy world and live very much within it. They may daydream about what is important to them, and sometimes others wonder if they are in touch with reality. They often get lost in their thoughts and books, and may develop a special ability in communicating, such as writing. They are somewhat reserved, especially in new situations.
As I child I focused more on my friends and everything around me. I liked to build stuff, I liked using my hands. And I was a video game addict. We played the usually kid games outside (cops and robbers, built clubhouses, etc) and I never lived in my head, I didn't have a reason to be.
Any other INFP's experience this? Or am I just..whatever?