he is very charming, manipulative like all image types, chaotic, one day he loves you, 2nd day he got bored (ENFP 4 horror combo LOL because both ENFP and 4 will be push-pull sometimes because ENFPs can be like stereotype tells - from flower to flower.. fickle is the word ithink)...
he basically has many mood swings. do you have mood swwings more than average non-4 NFP?
for ex, i am emotional but dont have mood swings, i am always joly, i can get angry, but it last a while and i can be angry and joly together.. he gets sad and nostalgic.. i dont do that much.. he droves in his feelings (sad ones!).......
w3 givess him ambition and business plans.
For the 4w5 that has an indulge's their own 4w3 wing can have an air of I'm entitled within the hidden narrative of their own agenda.
I rent a room like another in a mutual friends house ,our home the three of us consider the environment to be our home. And the other tenant believes he is entitled to do no house work at all unless it is a communal have to do.
This person is a 4w5 So/Sx, and it is clear to see this calculated indulgence.
An example does not pay / contribute to the internet connection but has up to four devices running at once ,at times.
Down the track,...complained about the internet speed, then it was explained that if he put his hand in his pocket and co payed for a better upgrade higher speed , his reply well I can't afford that he replies in a mumble as he walks of un pleased with the problem having no correct resolution.
I am sure all six variants of this subtype ( 4w5 ) would have an expression of entitlement operating within their own direct cognition.
You define in clear articulation about what takes place ,and convey it with ease, I like that and I enjoyed reading your explanation, I would like to be able to articulate like that you have to better explain that which I see with my visceral eye ,so to say.
Perhaps I see each wing viscerally through two lenses, a lens for agenda and a lens for mood. Maybe the subtype lens serves the types mood in focus and the shadow wing (for the want of a better term) lens serves agenda in focus.
Anyway I'm happy you posted because reading it, kinda helped me to consider that perspective of what maybe taking place between both wing and core energy.
Now I am considering thinking in three's , conscious for the core point energy and as above mood for the leading wing of the subtype and agenda for the leading component of the tri type.
( Conscious / Agenda / Mood )
For my self I reflect on a number pattern that is a practical manifestation of one of my favourite Numbers the number nineteen.
And at this point in time I am wondering to my self if the three focuses of attention, conscious, agenda, mood, maybe the operations of these three components I have intuitively recorded as a three part number pattern mechanism that I think of as perpetually operating at the sub surface level of the enneagram/ levels of awareness.
5 6 7 8 9 0 1 2 3 4
Not only do ,all processes begin at zero at point nine and end at point nine,
I think there are two other processes.
And I think that the three processes work in unison as a processor a mind activity action ,a geared working action not separate from Gurdjieff's (making the law of three happen within) action.
I'm also thinking that honouring simultaneously the free flow ,of these three directional, duel flowing directions, is an action that manifests an awakening, within an awakened Sate Of Awareness. The Law Of Three Action Of Awakened Awareness Unto Action.
The other two rows.
6 7 8 9 0 1 2 3 4 5
And
4 3 2 1 0 9 8 7 6 5
And placed together as a working unit in its simplistic configuration:
5 6 7 8 9 0 1 2 3 4
6 7 8 9 0 1 2 3 4 5
4 3 2 1 0 9 8 7 6 5
Now for a fourth perceptual view ,that reminds me of, Grater Natures,.role as Host.
9_0
0_1
0_9
9_10
9 + 9 + 1 = 19
All these numbers have a set place at Point:Nine within the model of: (all processes begin at zero at point nine and end at nine at point nine, of the selfs free will in action. Three parts three actions. A mechanism within the clock work of the living enneagram.
I hope I have adequately expressed the technical, that was hard work,
Any thoughts.