Atomic Fiend
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She was kidding. Read after the period.
In the real world, it sucks to have high N because I would rather be gang raped in prison (Dramatization) than watch the whole of NFL Fox Sunday with the guys. I don't mind playing football, I do enjoy it, but watching it, holy shit! I much rather have a nice intellectual conversation with someone than play football also. This is how we are alienated from 50+% of the guys already.
It also sucks to have high F, and be open about it, because I get to hear girl after girl bitch to me about guys not being sensitive and all that crap, yet they always go off with another douchebag who wines and dines them for no other reason than to use them as a sperm receptacle. Well hell, I am tired of being your straight friend you that you treat like your gay friend (Dramatization). It's like a company that interviews you for a position, after they look at your stats they tell you how awsome you are and just because you are so awsome and fit everything they are looking for, they won't hire you. What they will do is hire some one much less qualified, and when he quits on them and leaves them in the shitter, they will call you and tell you how much of a douche the person they hired was. Still they will then hire someone less qualified than you again, and tell you all about them, until he screws them over, and the cycle repeats.
Here we go with the dumb stereotyping again...
Being a strong NF does not make you any less of a man, nor does it make you weak.
People need to stop being so damn obsessed with what is considered 'manly' anyways....it's rather ridiculous. There are many, far more important things you should be concerning yourself about.
Saying that women only want men who fit the stereotype is just plain stupid, not to mention absurdly wrong.
I'm not sure how the "strong" versus "weak" discussion got brought into this. When I was writing about "acting like a man", I was refering to being a self-assured, confident leader versus being needy and dependant. I don't believe that most women are naturally attracted to needy and dependant guys. This has noting to do with physical characteristics.
I was wondering: what is a NF male like when in love? How does he investigate into the girl's soul and what is it that truly attracts him in a girl?
For myself as a girl, I have always been distrustful of good-looking guys and always had a thing for the humble, upright, but not-so-handsome guy.
'I think physical beauty is important to most men in general, including NF's, however I think that you bring up an interesting point. I wonder if & how attraction works differently based on personality. My gut feeling is that NF's would likely be the most picky due to their perfectionist tendancies, and therefore would have the highest standards on physical beauty.
I think physical beauty is important to most men in general, including NF's, however I think that you bring up an interesting point. I wonder if & how attraction works differently based on personality. My gut feeling is that NF's would likely be the most picky due to their perfectionist tendancies, and therefore would have the highest standards on physical beauty.