Mesmeric_Moon
Soul Reaver
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- Jan 31, 2017
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An ENFJ friend of mine is such an excellent example of the Ni eyes or Ni gaze if you prefer, it makes me a little less sceptical about the whole thing. Se as well. He maintains excellent eye contact with whomever he is talking to and then when the other person/people start talking, while he's listening he will still look at them but in between there will be moments when his eyes will be fixated somewhere else in a single point like meowington described, it sometimes seems like he stopped listening but that's not the case at all. You can also notice it with him even more so when he has indeed drifted off (in his thoughts) if you walk/sit in front of him it seems like he is looking right through you, like he is looking through a glass or something, like you're invisible to him. Se also shows more visibly when he is angry, few times when we've gotten even into small arguments his eyes would become just so focused on you and intense it's even a bit scary haha and now then I think about it I've seen the same thing with an ESTP friend too, though more the Se thing not the Ni tendency to zone out so much, maybe that's much more apperent in my ENFJ friend because he has auxilary Ni.