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Sounds good to me...and I was mostly definitely thinking about the emotionally/social disruptions that can not just the material/financial ones. On the family front I think 'do I want to overburden my siblings with taking care of my parents while I'm off in school?' 'Will I be willing to do the same if they decide they want to go to school?' 'Will I be able to handle the pressure of working and going to school?' 'What if the program I'm interested is on the other side of the country' I mean all these questions can't be ignored or remain unanswered for me and I'm not comfortable winging it with such major issues.
This could be a failing on my part. I may make these decisions somewhat self centrically and assume others can support themselves-that pesky Te standard thing. I need to think on that....For instance I chose to go to grad school in michigan rather than Texas where all of my family was-knowing this would take my son away from grandparents, as I wanted the experience. In retrospect it was a selfish decision made as I did not want another person telling me what I should do ie where to go to school.
It was fine in the end but very self centric in retrospect.
Ne-Monster: how do you explain me then?
Let me think-I dont understand INFPs very well but maybe Si for planning? Udog where are you?????