Yes finally, a place for me to rant and rave outside of my own blog! Thank you Disregard, I shall now go back to doing so.
So was going to post this in my blog but oh well might just copy and paste it there later. So me and the mother of my son are haveing disagreements again, we're not currently together but are both mature enough to realize going through court for custody issues would be more damageing than effective. So she keeps him and mostly raises him, when I wasnt working cause I had lost my job I saw him quite often. But now ive been working at my local Circuit City for about 7 months now have gotten a couple of promotions in my short time there and are trying to pay off some credit debt. But with my schedule there and hers at her job its extremely difficult trying to go and see my son. I honestly havent seen him since the day after Ike hit, I of course ran over there to check on them after that cause my cell wouldnt work. Ive had time to try and see him once recently but kinda blew it.
I told her I would be comeing over between 12 and 2, due to faulty alarming lol I didnt wake up until a little after 1. She calls and asks if im still comeing over, I tell her yes but I need a shower first. So im heading over there a little before 2 and she calls me and says not to even bother cause her and Raven are going to take a nap. I ask why, and she says cause I was suppose to be there at noon. So i just get pissed and fed up with it and hang up. I havent talked to her since, and this was last Wednesday.
So that was me ranting, but heres a question for NFs concerning the same thing. It kills me not being able to see my son everyday like she gets to but that was a known consequence of our break up. And I get to see him so little that when I do see him he doesnt even know who I am, and this definitely hurts. But I just dont have the time to come and see him as often as id like and theres really nothing I can do about it with how both our work schedules are. Now my question is does any of the NFs here ever had to deal with anything similar and if so howed you go about it? And what are your thoughts on my lack of contact with my son and how it might affect our relationship in the future when hes older?