They used to think I was slow back at my fast food job. Because I was SLOW in every way imaginable. Just- could not keep up with the physcial pace. And I would get confused and it was... Well-I started taking the dirty long grunt work instead where I could absorb myself and imagine myself as a superhero cleaning up the town or something.
Fwiw, I did a stint as a server when I had just gotten out of high school at a very busy Mexican restaurant here in town. It was easily one of the worst jobs I've ever had. The amount of physical activity, attention to detail and exertion required was brutal on me. It was a very Se heavy role and I just wasn't cut out for it whatsoever. I'm very confident in the idea that I'm Ni/Se, but I'm equally confident that my Se usage is pretty distant from my facility with Ni.
That said, I think you're ENFP, Frosty. You're mentally kinetic in a way that I associate with Ne-dominance. All the back and forth and awareness and awareness of awareness--that doesn't strike me as Si. Also, you vibe like other people who are on the site who are more than likely correctly typed ENFPs.
As for enneagram, I've thought of you as a counterphobic 6w7. 9 at disintegration point is possible, but in my conversations with you your focus is more about safety and trust rather than peace per se. What can you believe in? Who you are and what that means. Gut triad folks--bless our hearts--are a lot less mentally active than that. Not to say we're dumb, but getting to certain answers is more linear and not quite as urgent. 694 or 649 seems accurate.
Either way, more than likely you'll not not take those typings, but it's another perspective.
[MENTION=19700]Anaximander[/MENTION], otoh, I do have a pretty easy time seeing as a 9. I have no clue what his MBTI type is, though. Probably sp/so for instinctual variant.
[MENTION=25763]Enthusiastic_Dreamer[/MENTION] I think is an ESFJ 297 so/sx