Snow Turtle
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Hey Kai,
Many times when these forced confrontations happen, I know the person just wants to hear me say what I'm really thinking so that I can move on. For INFJs to do that though... it's hard. It's not going to make the INFJ feel better and they know that saying the truth will also hurt the other person - that's two FAILs right there. It's sorta like a husband telling his wife 'Yes' when she asks 'Do you think I'm fat?'. INFJs AVOID no-win situations like that.
I know this isn't fun for you. Sorry, man.
Torture seems much more worse than a swift death.
I'm not likely to experience any pain from hearing the truth now since I experienced it when I was stressing over our friendship. Now I'm just mostly detached.
Why confront her if I'm so detached? I still care enough about whether we're still friends, but no longer so attached that I would suffer if she decides that we're not.
It's just the final push really. So that I'll know whether to just continue as normal, or just remove myself from her life completely.