Moxiest
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- Jul 29, 2011
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I found out last week that one of my friends had been lying to me. THis REALLY bugs me... and it stinks, because since childhood, she has been one of my closest friends. I confronted her about it, and she was all "well, I'm not doing it anymore, please forgive me, I still see our friendship the same way blah blah blah" But, really, I cannot find it in me to trust her again.... and the really odd thing is, how hard it is for me to forgive her. I am incapable of seeing our friendship the same way.....
The feelings are mixed. I am very sad to lose a friend, but know I cannot trust her again. There is no going back. What she did can't be undone.... what frustrates me even more is, she doesn't seem to understand the fullness of what she has done... or maybe she doesn't really even care. That really hurts... but not bad enough for me to try and compensate for her shortcomings. No, I cannot and will not make an excuse for her. What she did was wrong...... it's just SO hard to let go.
The feelings are mixed. I am very sad to lose a friend, but know I cannot trust her again. There is no going back. What she did can't be undone.... what frustrates me even more is, she doesn't seem to understand the fullness of what she has done... or maybe she doesn't really even care. That really hurts... but not bad enough for me to try and compensate for her shortcomings. No, I cannot and will not make an excuse for her. What she did was wrong...... it's just SO hard to let go.