runvardh
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Ok, so I've been semi-consistently insensitive for the last few months to a year so I'm prepared for some laughs.
A month ago my brother asked if he could move across the country to stay with me as a way to give himself a change of scenery and maybe an improvement in social surroundings. I told him to give me a week to think about it and he did. I nearly said no, but I get the feeling he's grown up a bit since we were kids and I said yes.
He's going to be here tomorrow now and I feel like I'm working on panic mode. A month away, no problem. The most energetic person I've known in my life suddenly under the same roof as me... WHAT AM I DOING!!!
Ok, as an adult I am sure things will be fine and I did make it known that a 6 month trial period will be in place on this issue. Yes, I've covered my ass in that regard. The probem is, the childish part of me is still shaking in terror as I fight off a few old memories.
My guess for him is ESFP, though I'm quite prepared to be wrong. Growing up together was interesting at best and dungeon of torture at it's worst. He is amazing smart; espeically when it comes to what buttons to push with a person and I have gotten myself into a lot of trouble retaliating to this. Once our step-dad has told me that my brother is lucky I am so patient, because most brothers would have killed him (not grant him a near brush with death experience and cackle while he screamed).
I'm older now, though and so is he. We've been able to talk about our stupidity growing up as adults and have a better understanding of eachother now. He's also said that he won't be looking to me to keep him entertained. But why am I still worried?
A month ago my brother asked if he could move across the country to stay with me as a way to give himself a change of scenery and maybe an improvement in social surroundings. I told him to give me a week to think about it and he did. I nearly said no, but I get the feeling he's grown up a bit since we were kids and I said yes.
He's going to be here tomorrow now and I feel like I'm working on panic mode. A month away, no problem. The most energetic person I've known in my life suddenly under the same roof as me... WHAT AM I DOING!!!
Ok, as an adult I am sure things will be fine and I did make it known that a 6 month trial period will be in place on this issue. Yes, I've covered my ass in that regard. The probem is, the childish part of me is still shaking in terror as I fight off a few old memories.
My guess for him is ESFP, though I'm quite prepared to be wrong. Growing up together was interesting at best and dungeon of torture at it's worst. He is amazing smart; espeically when it comes to what buttons to push with a person and I have gotten myself into a lot of trouble retaliating to this. Once our step-dad has told me that my brother is lucky I am so patient, because most brothers would have killed him (not grant him a near brush with death experience and cackle while he screamed).
I'm older now, though and so is he. We've been able to talk about our stupidity growing up as adults and have a better understanding of eachother now. He's also said that he won't be looking to me to keep him entertained. But why am I still worried?