Thanks... That's what I don't get, I suppose. Over the year that we've known each other, he's introduced me to all of his closest friends. And most recently, the last two times I was at his place, he wanted me to get comfortable. For instance, he the last time I saw him, he kept asking me why I was holding so tightly to my purse and why won't I just get comfortable. And he wanted me to take my shoes off, and he kept making a big deal about me not taking my shoes off, and he said I was being anti-social because I wouldn't relax and get comfortable, and because I didn't want him rubbing my thighs. He had told me I could go into his fridge, and I even asked, "Your okay with me going into your fridge?" and he said, "yes". The physical affection was initiated by him(he laid his head on my shoulder and laid on me, while we watched a movie--but later he did try to do sexual stuff, so it might have been a ploy to lead to sex). I kept asking him afterwards, if he wanted me to leave because he kept falling asleep and he seemed tired, and he kept shaking his head no, and even mumbled that I could stay over, I ended up going home anyway(and he seemed surprised when I decided to leave to go home) but he walked me to my car and that was that. We talked a couple of days later, than talked again once more(both times small talk) and then I didn't talk to him for a few days, and when I sent him a silly text after a few days of us not talking, no response. The following day, another "no response" from him. That is what prompted me to write the letter. In the past whenever he gives me the silent treatment for more than one day, it's because I said or did something that upset him. But this time, I'm unsure what the problem was. I wrote the letter because I'm sick of it, but it's so puzzling to me. There were some issues the night that we saw each other(me not getting comfortable enough for him, and then not reading his cue about something and accidently pushing him away, and I was upset about something but later realized that he was giving me a piece of my own medicine), but we still talked after that night, so I assumed things were fine. I wouldn't have wrote the letter, in all honesty(at least not yet, I would have waited until I saw him again in person) if he hadn't given me the silent treatment again for some "unknown" reason.
OAN, whenever I come over his friends act really weird around me. That's another thing. Like they're very friendly and stuff, but they make me feel really weird--they give me weird smiles and I just get a really weird feeling. I have no clue if it all even means anything, but I'm wondering now if his lack of response also has something to do with him being upset about something that happened the last time we saw each other that he has not spoken up about.