Hendo Barbarosa
New member
- Joined
- Dec 26, 2008
- Messages
- 197
- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 5w4
I would say respect your time commitments. Don't be flaky, and show genuine interest.
This is also so important. Every minute past the time when you were supposed to meet one is a minute in a universe of utter chaos, that you have thrown them into. In fact, if you're going to be running late, might as well call or contact to say so, because it could NEVER hurt.
It kind of sucks too, because I've had enough friends who are also INTJ to realize that sometimes it seems like the INTJ is doing exactly that, being flaky and not showing genuine interest, and then YOU are required to NOT do that by any means. That building of sincere trust even in the face of (seeming) indifference, I've found definitely wins me over to people no matter what, and often builds friendships that I esteem higher almost than blood relatives.
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