freeeekyyy
Cheeseburgers
- Joined
- Feb 13, 2010
- Messages
- 1,384
- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
Hi NFers! So I have a very close, important friendship with this ENFP girl. Right around the beginning of July, I moved away. I had to because I couldn't live where I was living anymore, due to employment issues. I tried to make it very clear to her that this didn't change anything in our relationship, and that she was still of utmost importance to me. I told her that I will be moving back, and I meant it and do plan on moving back once I get my financial house in order. She seemed to accept that. Now here's what doesn't make sense to me, I understand that it's a fairly common trait for ENFPs, but it's still very difficult for me to accept. I've tried contacting her on numerous occasions, via email, phone, texting, etc. Sometimes she responds, usually she doesn't. She tells me that she loves me, etc, but I have a tough time seeing how a person can totally forget to write back or return the call, or whatever, of somebody who matters to them at all. I wouldn't do that to a simple acquaintance, let alone somebody I care deeply for. I guess what I'm wondering is, is this behavior a sign that she's written me off, and is no longer interested in me in a romantic sense? Or is it something I just need to get used to?