1. Do you think you're sometimes more selfish, mean, and less lovey-dovey than what people think us to be?
I do definitely have meanness within me, and I am quite capable of showing that side of myself.
I'm a selfish person.. but who isn't, honestly?
I'm just more honest about my selfishness.
Less lovey-dovey?
Well, I'm a HSP, and I bond to people a little too easily. ='(
but I like love in all forms..
friendship, family, ect..
and I just want someone to grow with..
other than that, I'm a very strong romantic at heart..
but I am in a relationship with a non-romantic person, if that's saying anything..
It's really hard though.. and I never thought there were unromantic people in the world.
I feel sad as a result.
2. Do you infact have a pretty dark side, which find a lot of people and things shallow, and unlikeable, and you'd like to stick pins in their eyes? But you wouldn't actually do it, because you are pretty nice realllyyy?
I have a dark side, but it's not pretty.
I get frustrated with shallowness, where people obsess over superficial details.. but I can also be sort of OCD myself at times..
I'm generally unlikable. That's just me.
Not anymore. =/
3. Do you feel frustrated towards people that don't care about things that really matter? Do you get frustrated at those that seems to only care about sports, clothes, and their hair?
I don't talk to people that only care about that stuff.
Maybe I should. -_-;;
4. Do you often feel lonely?
Loneliness is precious to me.. I want to be lonely more often..
and then I don't, and I knew I wouldn't want to feel lonely, but that feeling's just always there, and I'm glad, and then I'm sad again.. so whatever, right?
5. Do you get random ideas in the middle of the night, and you get so exicted thinking about doing it tomorrow, but then tomorrow comes and you're not excited about it anymore, thus don't do it?
For a while I was the kind of person that would push to do something because I had been let down so many times.
I don't push people to do things for me anymore.
I do get excited and then forget that I was going to do something or move onto another hobby after I came up with all kinds of plans and stuff..
6. Do you consider yourself unique?
Hard to say sometimes.
I mean.. If I said all the stuff I was thinking about, people would be overwhelmed and upset and stuff.. and avoid me.. and say mean stuff to me.
but I know there are people that are INFPs like me out there.. but they won't know all of the same things I know or have the same experiences I have had or love the same people I have loved..
so there's that.
I don't call myself a special snowflake, though. I always love the fact that I'm not the only INFP in the world.. and that there's that descriptive-y bunch of letters that can represent my feelings and what I stand for so accurately.
7. Do you literally feel other people's pain?
I have a hard enough time feeling my own pain right now.. I'm very numb in comparison to the way that I usually am.. but then again, I have two people I'm very close to but have never met that I feel like I empathically understand.. strange that I am more connected to those people than the people around me..
8. Are you a bit (or a lot) of a music snob?
What does that even mean?
Well.. I do cringe when people sing badly..
I want to encourage people to sing so badly, and then they sing, and my hopes are kind of dashed a little bit right then and there..
I just want them to practice a lot more, though, but at that point I just don't hold any sort of expectations for them.
I know when I don't like something pretty well.
If someone plays the drums poorly, I won't say anything, but ... I'll just tolerate the painful experience.. but it's not like I could do any better. xD
9. Have you had people you've never met before tell you their life-story?
I've had people ask me for advice on relationships and I've had one girl tell me a bunch of really sad stuff out of nowhere after I had just met her, but I'm not very good at giving advice.. and so all I can really do is listen..
I guess maybe NFPs might do this but they're speaking my language or something so I don't even notice? =o
10. Do you think the world would be a bit better with more INFP's?!
I think there are plenty of INFPs as it is.. As few of us as there are we hardly ever speak to each other, so what is up with that? Is that what things would be like if there were more INFPs?
but I do think more people would "get" me. That might be nice.
but also boring.