If you freqently want to tell people to suck it up, and you're sure you aren't a TJ, you might want to look into ENFP.
Hmmm...maybe I should elaborate. Some ENFPs have high Te, but it's generally fueled by Fi unlike a TJ's Te. I have a lot of empathy for suffering, but a certain kind of whining makes me roll my eyes, and excessively passive men drive me batshit ... in a bad way.
Anyway, ENFPs are notorious for being 'the champion' because we aren't afraid to speak up for what we think is right. We're much, much, much more likely to confront someone who we dislike or think is an asshole than an INFP is. I also thought I was an introvert at first, and apparently this is common with ENFP because of Ne dominance and what is known as "introverted extroversion" in ENxPs.
lol. I think you solved my sister's problem on her ENFPness. haha
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I understand what you're talking about, but I don't mean it in that way.
The example was "telling people to suck it up but not telling them to, as they would be hypocritical in that sense", not that I always feel the urge to tell people to "suck it up",etc.
but, unusually, I have considered being an INTJ, because of INTJ behavior and profile. But I think that's just because of the INxP(weak f) thing I have going on, because INFP males tend to have variable Te.
This is a bit long and complicated. I first started mbti based the usual experience-biased test which said I was an ISTJ, I agreed with it because it was so uniform and solid than I got INFJ the third time on that test and thought it the INFJ profile was much more accurate. Untill the point where I couldn't really relate to the behavior of an INFJ, even though I could relate to the profile. THEN, I saw the INFP functions which I thought I could apply to more than the INFJ functions, (the 2 types have practically completely opposite functions, so I had to choose one).
After that, I considered myself to be an INFP. THEN, I found out about how INFPs can be very clumsy and disorganized, stereotypically emotional/wimpy, and inconclusive, which I didn't totally apply to, - since I have the urge to be conclusive with my type. SO, I started to consider INFJ again, because I thought I actually do respect organization like an INFJ does. And then I found out that strong Te could be mistaken for a J, and then I found out that INTPs have the same functions but a stronger Te compared to an INFP, so now I consider myself an INXP(weak f).
- After all this, me questioning my type(like I usually do) with reason, makes me reassured about my type being (INFP+INTP), there are a lot of people that have this problem, that 'don't bother' and classify themselves as 'INFXs'(Which I actually did once), - who are like me and are actually INXPs.
sorry for the late reply...