Cloud of Thunder
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Probably another Fe-dominant/auxiliary type. A good friend of mine is an ISFJ. I think I'd get along with an ENFJ.
I feel bad for you for having to experience infidelity. It's a painful thing to have to go through. However you can't really blackball a whole type as cheaters based on one individual, or even three or ten. I have a very different experience myself. I also have an experience of dating someone who was an ENTP whose behavior at the time was very controlling and emotionally manipulative. Does that mean that every ENTP is like that based on one specimen and one interaction in one given place and time? No.I am in love with an ENFP and it is a painful roller coaster ride. I am happiest with an ENTP. Why is this?
This ENFP reads me like a book and typed me before I even knew my type. Because of the emotionality and deep connection we have that exists without words, every time his curiosity gets the better of him and he chooses to spend time with another woman - which is ALL of the time, I can't help but feel like my person is being rejected at a very deep level. Like I'm not good enough or something; though in reality - he is probably just being an ENFP.
The relationship dynamics just don't shake out to be very healthy or secure in the long run. In short, ENFP + INFJ = strong and intense emotional connection, goes up in flames because ENFPs can't commit and INFJs need commitment.
ENTPs and INFJs share the compatibility of ENFP and INFJ but without the heaviness of intense emotional connection. Therefore, when ENTPs are just being spontaneous and curious, INFJs don't take it personally and they can see the ENTP curiousity for what it really is and delight in it - instead of taking it as a personal rejection.
It is funny, my non romantic relationships with ENFPs are similar and fun.
At least, this has been my experience. I have been burned by an ENFP so I am biased.
Because of the emotionality and deep connection we have that exists without words, every time his curiosity gets the better of him and he chooses to spend time with another woman - which is ALL of the time, I can't help but feel like my person is being rejected at a very deep level. Like I'm not good enough or something; though in reality - he is probably just being an ENFP.
The relationship dynamics just don't shake out to be very healthy or secure in the long run. In short, ENFP + INFJ = strong and intense emotional connection, goes up in flames because ENFPs can't commit and INFJs need commitment.
ENTPs and INFJs share the compatibility of ENFP and INFJ but without the heaviness of intense emotional connection. Therefore, when ENTPs are just being spontaneous and curious, INFJs don't take it personally and they can see the ENTP curiousity for what it really is and delight in it - instead of taking it as a personal rejection.
It is funny, my non romantic relationships with ENFPs are similar and fun.
At least, this has been my experience. I have been burned by an ENFP so I am biased.
By Socionics intertype relations chart the best match for INFJ is the ESTP. These two types have exactly same cognitive functions but in reverse formation, making them form what's called a Duality relationship (described under SLE-IEI, INFJ becomes INFp in socionics since that is their Ni leading Fe creative type). Unfortunately these two types, INFJ and ESTP, rarely meet and get together so their unions are very few.
Other favorable matches include: ENFJ (mirror relationship), ISTP (activity relationship), ENTP (mirage relationship), INTP and ISFP (benefit relationship), ENFP (extinguishment relationship), ESFP (semi-duality relationship)
Can any INFJs confirm these relationship types?
Most of the types winning on the poll are other intuitive types. Nobody dates sensors?
Can any INFJs confirm these relationship types?
Most of the types winning on the poll are other intuitive types. Nobody dates sensors?