*flexes muskels at you daringly*
You know, it tends to be the other way around. lol If an ENTP has drawn a bead on me, it's "You iz my wimminz now". Of course, I like to throw it right back because the playtime is extraordinary. I love their narcotic playfulness and the grappling (verbal or otherwise) has tended to be part of the mating ritual.
However, I haven't been above saying on occassion, "Yeah, you're mine now, no amount of hiding/jokes will save you" when serious mutual attraction has engaged and he's getting shy on me.
My thing is, and I hate to sound vain but whatever: I don't mind the magnetism, but they seem to be a bit freaked out by it..or me. Or something. I just run out of patience after a while. I enjoy the feeling immensely while it's happening, but I've learned it will ebb and flow and I need to just to keep it f*cking moving.
That IS a problem, and I've been in the same dratted boat. Case in point: one guy that I clicked with on a monster level, he swung *wildly* between fleeing from me and coming back to me. On my part, I couldn't help how I felt about him, and I truly began to wonder if I was a weak-minded idiot for allowing it. I could tell he was really attracted to me but terrified of it? My very presence (and attention) seemed to be incredibly pleasing to him and horrible at the same time. I was clearly distressing him and that made me back up hard. It was confusing to the point of putting me in tears.
I'm all about having personal freedom and my own inviolable space, and I too don't "commit" to ANYONE in a romantic sense unless I REALLY like them. I'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't hit me between the eyes. So a loss of freedom is NOT going to happen, and yet the panic remains. He wasn't the first (or the last, I suspect) ENTP to get high and recoil from me.
ENTPs are terrible people. You should all be ashamed.
They smell like soup.
Good for you. Acceptance is the first step toward change.
Let's not encourage this sort of change. Then we can't be superior.