Wolfie
New member
- Joined
- Jul 13, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- xNxx
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- so
I used to be way more inclined to react that way, because I feel a huge sense of responsibility for the feelings of others. Now, I am usually disinclined to say something sympathetic because it is usually enabling a victim mentality. I choose to instead provide solutions or uplifting remarks, but I won't coddle anyone unless it is a situation that truly deserves coddling.