cooliogirly1000
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that would make you happy, what would it be?
You could have it right now and that would be all you needed for the rest of your life, what would it be?
I know it may be impossible to limit things, but it could be love, money..etc.
I know for me, if I had sincere unconditional love (btw my partner, parents, children) that would be all I need. Somehow, i feel if money, job, health went away which it could do, I would still be strong knowing there were people who cared about me.
The tricky bit is, I know there is unconditional love between families, but what about spouses? I am still seeking for that one guy I can have that with. Do the realist of you think he doesn't exist?
When I tell people this, they become perplexed and say so your life is based on the love of a man?? well the true love of a man is what will make me happy, enable me to make a family of my own, will give me children whom I can love more..etc. Isn't this what life is all about? There are thousands of men out there who have it in them, but where is that one individual who will choose to show it and believe in it?
Shouldn't reality be like this?? Why do we accept the shortcoming's of reality and say that there is no such thing as unconditional love?
As an INFP I can't seem to balance things, its either all doom and gloom or eternal bliss.
I hope you got the jist of this thread and that I have not ranted on and become dreamy like a typical INFP.
You could have it right now and that would be all you needed for the rest of your life, what would it be?
I know it may be impossible to limit things, but it could be love, money..etc.
I know for me, if I had sincere unconditional love (btw my partner, parents, children) that would be all I need. Somehow, i feel if money, job, health went away which it could do, I would still be strong knowing there were people who cared about me.
The tricky bit is, I know there is unconditional love between families, but what about spouses? I am still seeking for that one guy I can have that with. Do the realist of you think he doesn't exist?
When I tell people this, they become perplexed and say so your life is based on the love of a man?? well the true love of a man is what will make me happy, enable me to make a family of my own, will give me children whom I can love more..etc. Isn't this what life is all about? There are thousands of men out there who have it in them, but where is that one individual who will choose to show it and believe in it?
Shouldn't reality be like this?? Why do we accept the shortcoming's of reality and say that there is no such thing as unconditional love?
As an INFP I can't seem to balance things, its either all doom and gloom or eternal bliss.
I hope you got the jist of this thread and that I have not ranted on and become dreamy like a typical INFP.