thescientist
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- Jul 23, 2009
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- MBTI Type
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- 5w4
HELP!
We have been friends for some time, but I was in the midst of dating an ENFP when our friendship was blossoming. That relationship didnt work out so I continued my friendship with the INFP. We hung out in a small group last week. Everyone left. He lingered. We talked for hours. I felt the stinking butterflies all weekend.
UGH. Things have been a little different since that night. He initiated contact all week after that. We both recognize and are aware we're attracted to each other physically and our friendship consists of a lot of blatant flirtation on both ends. We're also kind of each other's confidantes.
He's not very forward at all. I've been as obvious as an INTJ can be. I think he picks up on the hints, but seems hesitant to pursue. I don't want to screw this one up! Not sure how to go about this. Never met an INFP boy like him. So smart and sophisticated. So much in common. The introversion...not so sure about. I usually go weak at the knees for ENFPs. But this INFP intrigues me...in a different way. How can I tell if he's interested in me beyond friendship?
We have been friends for some time, but I was in the midst of dating an ENFP when our friendship was blossoming. That relationship didnt work out so I continued my friendship with the INFP. We hung out in a small group last week. Everyone left. He lingered. We talked for hours. I felt the stinking butterflies all weekend.
UGH. Things have been a little different since that night. He initiated contact all week after that. We both recognize and are aware we're attracted to each other physically and our friendship consists of a lot of blatant flirtation on both ends. We're also kind of each other's confidantes.
He's not very forward at all. I've been as obvious as an INTJ can be. I think he picks up on the hints, but seems hesitant to pursue. I don't want to screw this one up! Not sure how to go about this. Never met an INFP boy like him. So smart and sophisticated. So much in common. The introversion...not so sure about. I usually go weak at the knees for ENFPs. But this INFP intrigues me...in a different way. How can I tell if he's interested in me beyond friendship?
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