I found her on a dating page. I used spotify heavily because i believe music tells something about you..
All the extro feelers had slow songs with lyrics that had a meaning. While she was oblivious to the lyrics (for some time that actually scared me a bit) and she also stated she scored ISTP as i had mentioned MBTI briefly. And i did some "impossible" conclusions and concluded that THIS girl will be a match.
and despite 2hours of sleep everything went fine on the date.
I had at the time concluded that i was not ready for a feeler/they are not ready for me. A thinker is my thing. And due to privious experience with ESTPs i decided that ISTP is more my thing. Was she as i expected? No.. much softer, sweeter and more gentle than i expected. But she is still more hardcore than i am. hard to explain.
Thanks for the input Mats! What was it that attracted you to her and what do you like most about her/ what irritates you the most?
Pros:
Logic and rationale rules.
Never ever a conflict.
She is open minded and tolerant
Likes speed and excitement
Loves to learn stuff and hear facts and so on.
Impossible to scare. (on our first date she saw my "im thinking and it looks like i am making a evil plan" (according to her) and she just found me interesting. That and that i was funny.
Cons:
won`t do it again if she feels that she is not good at it. (OT:I have given her a few tips in pool and she is now owning me. She says she don`t need to think about the tips she just adjust it seems)
Not much of a discussion partner. Shes like: "okay... i know you will figure out the right solution anyway"