missellis75
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- Jan 3, 2008
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- ENFJ
Hello all, I am an ENFj and I have recently been estranged from my ISTj ex-boyfriend (due to my leaving the country for several months). When I left he disowned me (this is rather tragic) then he called me and left a voice message; essentially he said that he still cared for me and that he was sad that our relationship had to end this way... I was on the plane and could not call him back.
In my absence, however, he was cold and reserved--he "un-friended" me on facebook, and did not respond to my correspondences. I am back in the states, and we live near enough to eachother now. When we run into eachother he goes out of his way to see how I am, and yet he won't pursue even a friendly relationship with me now.
This is more hypothetical than anything; at this point it would be impossible to rectify anything that we had. But I am curious. What happened, and what can I do to help this awkwardness...?
Thank you much!
In my absence, however, he was cold and reserved--he "un-friended" me on facebook, and did not respond to my correspondences. I am back in the states, and we live near enough to eachother now. When we run into eachother he goes out of his way to see how I am, and yet he won't pursue even a friendly relationship with me now.
This is more hypothetical than anything; at this point it would be impossible to rectify anything that we had. But I am curious. What happened, and what can I do to help this awkwardness...?
Thank you much!