You know..if an INFJ shows someone something personal, it's for a very, very specific reason..
I'm not talking about surface -level things...no. I am referring to deep, relationship issues. She told me these things for a reason. I said, "7 yrs and there's no ring on that finger?" She knew I knew there was a problem. And with her heavy, active flirting, these types of messages started forming a picture inside of me of a potential future. In other words, she thinks I'm good enough. No INFJ would actively flirt, because that would be hurtful, if she didn't mean what her intentions showed. So I can't answer if she wants a ring, no. She does want to be in a relationship..She isn't happy with her current relationship and hasn't been for some time. This is the reason she told me those things. She doesn't want to be with a loser. I haven't told her I offer her a serious, committed, long-term (short of saying marriage) relationship. She doesn't have the courage to break up with him, but she doesn't want to make the change if there's some possibility I wouldn't stay around.
Which you know my position.. I will and I want to . Through thick and thin.
When I expressed my feelings to her. "I feel more than friends for you. But I understand that the circumstances are difficult due to your relationship. I do get it when it comes to that. I just want to be honest"