greenfairy
philosopher wood nymph
- Joined
- May 25, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- iNfj
- Enneagram
- 6w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
So how do you use this site? I use it to understand myself first, then others, and sometimes for intelligent discussion of ideas. I get the feeling the way I use it is a bit different from other people. I think other people are more into socializing and understanding other people first, because they have themselves already figured out. I do socialize, but off the internet. I wonder if that's off putting? It seems reasonable to do socializing in real life and talk about typology on a typology website, and use yourself as the subject since you know yourself better than you can presume to know anyone else. I hesitate to type other people for that reason- I doubt I can know them well enough to accurately type them in most cases. Am I wrong to use the website in this way? Does it make me look narcissistic? Anyway, that's my motivation for asking the question. Entirely personal and ego centered. But also considering other people's feelings because I don't want to be annoying. I don't want to look self centered. If I find out most people use it differently and why, and I agree it's a better perspective, I'll adopt it and (hopefully) be more likable.